Doa semasa berwuduk

Semasa berwuduk, boleh kita berdoa seperti berikut:

Ketika membasuh tangan ~ Berta'awuz & Bismillah

Ketika berkumur ~ Ya Allah, ampunilah dosa-dosa mulutku ini

Ketika memasukkan air ke dalami hidung ~ Ya Allah, ciumkanlah aku bau syurgaMu
Ketika mengeluarkan air dari hidung ~ Ya Allah, jauhilah aku dari bau nerakaMu

Ketika membasuh muka ~ Ya Allah, putihkan wajahku sepertimana Engkau putihkan wajah org2 beriman di akhirat nanti

Ketika membasuh tangan kanan ~ Ya Allah, berikanlah buku hisabku di tangan kananku ini
Ketika membasuh tangan kiri ~ Ya Allah, jauhilah tanganku dari melakukan perkara maksiat

Ketika membasuh sebahagian kepala ~ Ya Allah, lindungilah kepalaku dari terik mentari mahsyar di akhirat nanti

Ketika membasuh telinga ~ Ya Allah, cucilah segala dosa-dosa telinga ku ini

Ketika membasuh kaki kanan ~ Ya Allah, permudahkan kakiku utk melintasi titian sirat di akhirat nanti
Ketika membasuh kaki kiri ~ Ya Allah, jauhilah kakiku dari menuju ke tempat2 maksiat

SeMoGa SoLaT BeRtAmBaH KhUsYuK......inshaAllah

UNTUK PERINGATAN.........

Jenis-jenis curang

Perlakuan curang terbahagi kepada dua iaitu emosi dan seksual.
Kecurangan seksual adalah perlakuan seksual yang berlaku di luar perkahwinan. Ia boleh berlaku tanpa melibatkan perasaan cinta.
Kecurangan emosi pula berlaku apabila seseorang bercinta dengan seseorang yang bukan pasangannya.
Ia biasanya bermula dengan perkongsian pendapat seperti bertukar-tukar fikiran atau chatting di Internet.
Kemudian mereka mula berkongsi perasaan dan berbicara tentang sesuatu yang lebih peribadi.
Lama-kelamaan perasaan tersebut menjadi semakin dalam dan akhirnya membawa kepada keintiman. Kes seperti ini lebih banyak berlaku dan lebih bahaya.
Tanda amaran Pakar mengatakan bahawa curang merupakan petanda bagi sesebuah perkahwinan yang bergolak dan bukannya penyebab kepada pergolakan tersebut.
Ia adalah ‘wake-up call’ untuk pasangan menilai kembali perhubungan mereka.
Langkah pertama adalah mendedahkan kecurangan tersebut. Ingat! Tidak ramai pasangan yang sanggup mengaku dan menyerah diri begitu sahaja.
Perlakuan curang mencorak tingkah laku pasangan yang melakukannya.
Untuk itu, setiap orang perlulah benar-benar peka terhadap sebarang perubahan tingkah laku pasangan masing-masing.
Sekiranya ibu bapa boleh mengetahui yang anak gadis mereka sedang dilamun cinta, begitu juga suami isteri yang sudah berkahwin dan hidup bersama sejak sekian lama.
Bezanya adalah betapa sakitnya hati pasangan yang memandang.
Pengisian perkahwinanKesimpulannya, tidak ada sesiapa pun yang berkahwin mengharapkan pasangan mereka akan berlaku curang.
Sekiranya berlaku, kedua-dua pihak perlu melaluinya dengan tabah dan sedia berubah ke arah kebaikan. Curang tidak bermakna berakhirnya sesebuah perkahwinan.
Perkahwinan memerlukan pengisian berkualiti dari sudut emosi, material dan kerohanian.
Jiwa yang sentiasa dipenuhi tidak akan terlintas untuk berlaku curang. Perbaiki komunikasi dan berusahalah untuk memberi lebih perhatian.
Jika anda jenis yang mudah jatuh cinta, sila hadkan hubungan sosial dengan rakan yang berlainan jantina.
Curang selalunya berpunca daripada masalah perhubungan yang tidak diberi perhatian di dalam sesebuah perkahwinan.
Ia tidak semestinya disebabkan oleh pasangan tersebut sudah tidak saling cinta mencintai lagi.

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10 Ways to Be a Good Role Model for Grandkids

Grandparents Will Reap Benefits in Their Own Lives as Well

By Susan Adcox,

Sometimes when my grandchildren do something that I don't like, I cringe a little, because I recognize their behavior as something they could have learned from me. Grandparents are role models for their grandkids, often in ways that we may not realize. Here are some suggestions for being a good influence on your grandchildren and enriching your own life along the way.

1. Be Happy With Your Appearance.

If you're a grandparent, chances are that you have a few bags and bulges that you haven't always had. Accept them. Our young people live in a world that values appearance above almost everything else. No matter how consistently you praise their natural beauty and their inner assets, they are still getting many messages saying that they aren't perfect enough. You can give them a contrary point of view, but it starts with accepting your own appearance.

2. Be a Good Giver.

We sometimes say that there are two kinds of people in the world, givers and takers. That's an over-simplification, because givers sometimes give in an attempt to manipulate others or to control a relationship, in which case they are not true givers. Be sure that you give with a free heart and in situations where you derive no personal benefit. Volunteering can be a way to practice giving, and volunteering with grandchildren spreads the giving habit.

3. Rank People Above Things.

People are more important than things, although your adherence to this philosophy may be tested when a grandchild breaks a treasured possession. No one is saying that grandchildren should not be taught respect for the possessions of others. But check yourself. If the things that occupy your time and excite your passion are all things, you are definitely sending the wrong message to your grands. People should outrank possessions every time.

4. Be Open to Beauty.

A life without beauty would be a sad one, indeed. Fortunately the beauty of nature is never far away from most of us. We can also find beauty in music and art and make our own surroundings as aesthetically pleasing as possible. Don't be embarrassed to talk about where you find beauty and how it feeds the soul, and your grandchildren will be free to share the beauty that they discover with you.

5. Be Optimistic. 
We've all experienced being around older people who consistently take the most negative view of people and events. What a downer! Be someone that the grandchildren will want to be around by looking for sources of positive energy and developing the habit of positive self talk. Besides making yourself happier and more fun to be around, you'll be showing the grandchildren a pattern for living their later lives.

6. Get Off the Couch.

It's great to cheer for your grandchildren from the stands, but it's even more important to give them a reason to cheer for you. You don't have to be on a team or even play a sport, but let the grandchildren see that staying active is important. Find a fitness activity that's right for you, and explore ways to make it more effective. If you can find activities to enjoy with your grandchildren, so much the better.

7. Have a Positive Relationship With Food.

Many family conflicts center around whether grandparents spoil the grandchildren with too many goodies, but there's a bigger picture here. If grandparents are giving non-nutritious treats as a way of showing love, that's a sign of a relationship with food that's not as healthy as it should be. At a grandparent's house, eating should be a source of pleasure and a communal activity, but always with an emphasis on good health and nutrition. Toxic food habits are hard to break, but thinking of how they might influence grandchildren may make it easier.

8. Be Aware of Tone.

When my husband and I have an argument, he often tells me that it wasn't my words that bothered him but the tone of my voice. As we get older, we are more prone to speak in a tone that may be described as peevish or ill-humored. Spend some time listening to others and notice how the tone of their voices affects you. Then strive to cultivate a positive tone. If you have to communicate a negative message, strive for a tone that is as neutral as possible. Families tend to have a distinctive culture that includes a communication style. Make yours one that will be a positive influence on your grandchildren.

9. Embrace Politics.

It's oh-so-easy to say that all politicians are corrupt or inept and recuse ourselves from the whole subject. Government is required for our world to function, however, and people are required to run the government. Grandparents can be good role models by becoming informed, shunning misinformation and engaging in civil political discourse, while encouraging our grandchildren to do the same. Of course, it goes without saying that grandparents should exercise that most precious of privileges, the right to vote.

10. Forgive and Forgive Again.

If you've lived long enough to be a grandparent, people have hurt you. If you have the wisdom that a grandparent is supposed to possess, you've forgiven them. Family members all need to practice forgiveness, or they will live in a constant welter of petty quarrels and family drama. One more thing: Most of the time, forgiveness doesn't need to be offered publicly. It takes place in the human heart.

To some who is very special in my life...............

"That's The Way It Is"

I can read your mind and I know your story
I see what you're going through
It's an uphill climb, and I'm feeling sorry
But I know it will come to you

Don't surrender 'cause you can win
In this thing called love

When you want it the most there's no easy way out
When you're ready to go and your heart's left in doubt
Don't give up on your faith
Love comes to those who believe it
And that's the way it is

When you question me for a simple answer
I don't know what to say, no
But it's plain to see, if you stick together
You're gonna find a way, yeah

So don't surrender 'cause you can win
In this thing called love

When you want it the most there's no easy way out
When you're ready to go and your heart's left in doubt
Don't give up on your faith
Love comes to those who believe it
And that's the way it is

When life is empty with no tomorrow
And loneliness starts to call
Baby, don't worry, forget your sorrow
'Cause love's gonna conquer it all, all

When you want it the most there's no easy way out
When you're ready to go and your heart's left in doubt
Don't give up on your faith
Love comes to those who believe it
And that's the way it is

When you want it the most there's no easy way out
When you're ready to go and your heart's left in doubt
Don't give up on your faith
Love comes to those who believe it
And that's the way it is

That's the way it is
That's the way it is, babe
Don't give up on your faith
Love comes to those who believe it
And that's the way it is.

Memburu Impian

Ku jejak
Jalan yang berliku
Membara jiwaku
Memburu impian
Ku renang lautan gelora
Biarpun tersadai
Di hujung dunia
Akan ku rempuhi segala rintangan
Biarpun rebah ku bangun sendiri
(Korus)
Akan ku genggam biarpun hitam
Menjadi milikku
Ku mula
Dengan langkah ini
Menuju sinaran yang abadi

Pedoman ~ Nora

Roda waktu tak pernah menunggu
Pergi terus berlalu
Segala dosa segala belenggu
Sesal menikam jiwa kuhiba, terasa
KebesaranMu… Lantas kutadah, berdoa

Tuhan berikan pedoman
Tunjukkan aku arah jalan yang kau redhai
Tuhan berikan pedoman
Dan bila kumenjauh,
Kembali ke pangkal jalan

Cahaya rahmatMu menyinar bahagia
Syukur hatiku rasa
Bergetar tubuh kusebut namaMu
Yang Maha Esa, Maha Pengasih Penyayang
KurniaanMu lantas kusujud, bersyukur

Tuhan berikan pedoman
Tunjukkan aku arah, jalan yang kau redhai
Tuhan berikan pedoman
Dan bila kumenjauh,
Kembali ke pangkal jalan

Oooooooooooo……

Biar pedoman ini
Berkekalan dihati, selamanya
Pengubat jiwa, penyinar bahagia
Inilah kasih yang kita damba

Tuhan berikan pedoman
Tunjukkan aku arah
Jalan yang kau redhai
Tuhan berikan pedoman
Dan bila kumenjauh,
Kembali ke pangkal jalan

Bukan Kerana Nama - Ramli Sarip & A Romzie

Jangan kau pandang bibir yang manis
Kerana dia bisa menghancurkan
Jangan kau pandang wajah yang indah
Kerana dia bisa meracunmu

( korus )
Dengarlah hai teman
Dengarkan bersama
Aku menulis bukan kerna nama
Kerna sifat kasih
Pada sesama insan
Dan menyatakan kasih sayangmu
Kita sama semuanya sama
Apa yang ada hanyalah kehidupan

Jangan kau dengar puisi dusta
Kerana dia bisa merosakkan jiwamu
Dengarkanlah puisi di pusaka
Yang telah turun temurun hari ini

Jangan kau alas hatimu itu
Dengan secebis warna kehitaman
Dialah seperti anai-anai
Lambat laun hancurlah dirimu